Hosts: Milo Curtis, Dave Ambrose, Patty McCaulay
Topic: Friendship
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Episode Synopsis
In this episode we talk about what makes for a good friendship. We have found that it is increasingly difficult to find good friendships the older you get and the busier life becomes. Exploring what makes for a good friendship, how those friendships are shaped, and how to take a friendship to the next level are some of the questions we look at.
What do You Think?
We would love to hear from you and get some feedback on what you think makes for a good friendship. You can leave comments below and/or you can get a hold of us at podcast@justlife.tv.
March 11, 2008 at 8:10 am |
Guys,
I totally agree with Patty’s idea that someone has to open up first for a relationship to go anywhere deeper than the weather and sports. I think we have few close friendships because we don’t risk and don’t invest the time.
I think many of us do have that fear that if we share what is really going on that people will want to run or not want to pick up the phone.
I am glad you brought up the conflict thing. I have a friend that I have been friends with for 95% of my life about 35 years or so. And over that time we have had a few times that we did not get along. There were a few big disagreements, but because we were willing to push through it and keep investing in the friendship we still are friends and very close friends. Friends are essential, but take lots of investment and forgiveness.
I think also what helps a good friendship, is learning to ask questions about them and not just talk about us. Ask questions that draw out what excites them.
Another great show! Great topic I think a lot people struggle with friendships. Either with existing ones or the lack of them.
Keep them coming!
Dave
May 3, 2008 at 9:24 pm |
Hey – Awesome site, it’s so rare to find real life conversations… This was a great topic for me to hear! I’ve been making friends with someone online who occasionally struggles with depression (just like me). It turns out his only friends are on the internet and I’m trying to push-in and reach out to him. Anyway, some things you discussed will hopefully help me to come alongside and support him. I especially liked the part where you spoke about internet relationships lacking eye contact, expressions, etc. and also about sharing personal info in hope of reciprocation. Thanks for all, I value your efforts.